Band Pull Apart: How to Do It, Muscles Worked and Benefits
How to do a band pull apart with correct form. The muscles it works, why it helps rounded shoulders, the mistakes that ruin it, plus variations and a simple sets and reps plan.
By Nadia Popescu, Strength & Conditioning Writer · Updated 19 August 2026
A curtsy lunge is a lunge where you step back and across instead of straight back, so your rear leg crosses behind the front one. The shape gives it the name, and the crossover is the entire point: it swings the hip into a position that lands the load on the side of the glute, which most leg training barely touches. If you squat and deadlift and still feel like the outside of your hips does nothing, this is the exercise that fixes that.
It is also easy to do badly. The crossed stance invites your knee to cave in and your hips to rotate, and both of those turn a useful exercise into a nagging ache. Below is how to do it properly, what it works, and how to build it into a session.
Start with no weight until the pattern feels natural. A mirror or a phone propped up sideways helps more than you would think.
Step shorter than you think
Almost everyone steps too far across. A wide, deep crossover looks impressive and forces your pelvis to twist, which is where the knee and lower back complaints come from. Step back and just past the outside of your standing heel, no further. If your hips rotate, shorten the step.
Gluteus maximus of the front leg does the bulk of the lifting, straightening the hip as you stand back up. Squat and lunge patterns are reliably among the strongest activators of the glute max (systematic review of gluteus maximus activation during strength and hypertrophy exercises).
Gluteus medius is the reason to bother. Sitting on the outside of the hip, it stops your pelvis dropping and your knee caving, and the crossed-behind position makes it work harder than a straight lunge does.
Quadriceps extend the front knee through the whole range, especially as you approach parallel.
Adductors on the inner thigh of the front leg control the crossover and assist coming out of the bottom. The day-after soreness people report from curtsy lunges is often here rather than in the glutes.
Hamstrings, calves and core stabilise throughout. Your trunk in particular works to resist the rotational pull of the crossed stance.
Foot and stance position genuinely change which muscles take the load in lunge patterns, with research on forward lunges showing that foot progression angle and stance width shift lower-limb activation (study on foot progression angle and stance width during lunge exercises). Translated into practice: small changes to where your feet land are not cosmetic, so pick a foot position and stay consistent from rep to rep.
Front knee caving in. The single biggest one. The crossed stance actively encourages it. Fix it by consciously pushing the front knee out towards your little toe as you descend, and by shortening the step.
Rotating the hips. If your pelvis swings to follow the back foot, you lose the glute medius work you came for and load your lower back instead. Square hips, shorter step.
Leaning forward. Torso should stay upright. Holding a dumbbell at your chest is the easiest fix, because the counterweight in front helps you sit back rather than tip over.
Putting weight on the back foot. The rear leg is a kickstand, not a lifting leg. If you feel it working hard, you are shifting weight backwards. About 80 percent of your weight belongs on the front leg.
Going too deep too early. Depth is earned. If your hips tilt or your front heel lifts near the bottom, stop the rep higher and work on ankle and hip mobility separately.
Bodyweight curtsy lunge. Where everyone starts. Master it before adding load.
Goblet curtsy lunge. Hold a dumbbell or kettlebell at your chest. The front counterweight keeps you upright and makes depth easier, which is why it is the best first loaded version. Our goblet squat guide explains the same hold in more detail.
Dumbbells at your sides. Heavier loading for when the goblet position runs out of headroom. A pair of adjustable dumbbells makes progressing in small steps painless.
Curtsy lunge to lateral raise of the leg. Come up out of the lunge and lift the rear leg out to the side before stepping back. Turns it into a proper glute medius burner.
Deficit curtsy lunge. Stand on a low step so the rear leg travels further. Increases range at the front hip, and it is harder than it sounds.
Banded curtsy lunge. Loop a light band above the knees to force the front knee out. Useful as a teaching tool if caving is your habit.
Slot them after your main lift, not before it. A sensible lower-body session might run squats or hip thrusts first, then curtsy lunges, then something for the hamstrings. If you want a straightforward step before this one, work through the reverse lunge first, and if you want to go heavier on one leg later, the Bulgarian split squat is the obvious progression.
The front leg's glutes do most of the work, and the crossed-behind position puts unusual demand on the gluteus medius on the outside of the hip. Your quads extend the knee, the adductors on the inner thigh of the front leg work hard to control the crossover, and your core and the small hip stabilisers fight the twisting force. Very little else loads the side of the glute this directly.
Not inherently, but it is less forgiving than a straight lunge because the crossed stance rotates the thigh. Trouble comes from letting the front knee collapse inwards or from stepping so far across that your hips twist. Keep the step shallow, keep the front knee tracking over the middle of the foot, and it is a perfectly safe movement for healthy knees.
In a reverse lunge you step straight back. In a curtsy lunge you step back and across, so the rear foot lands outside the line of the front leg, like the bottom half of a curtsy. That crossover changes the hip angle and shifts more work to the gluteus medius and the adductors, at the cost of some stability.
Three sets of 10 to 12 reps per leg is a good default for strength and shape. If you are new to the movement, start with two sets of 8 per leg with no weight while you learn to control the crossover. Doing 30 sloppy reps a side is far less useful than 10 where the front glute clearly does the work.
They can contribute, but they are an accessory rather than a main lift. Squats, hip thrusts and Romanian deadlifts load the glutes far more heavily. Where the curtsy lunge earns its place is in reaching the gluteus medius, which builds the width and shape at the side of the hip that heavy bilateral lifts tend to miss.
Learn the pattern with bodyweight first, then hold a single dumbbell or kettlebell at your chest, which helps you stay upright. Once that feels controlled, move to two dumbbells at your sides for heavier loading. Most people are better served by adding a small amount of weight and keeping the movement clean than by chasing numbers.
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